Some examples of my work

Her first caning.

This is brat's favorite pic. She took another forty after this. A brilliant session!

A gentle, knickers-down, over-the-knee spanking. Delicious.

Riding the Downs as well as the Ups

We've been having a mostly play-based D/s relationship for the last few weeks and recently began working on a permanent slave contract.

The way we're preparing for the Master/slave lifestyle is by having a trial period where brat voluntarily consents to my command, having some time formally collared and enslaved every day, being permanently (except when in vanilla company) referred to as slave, toy, brat or princess (her petslave name!) and generally having a taster of what it's like to be a slave.

At the same time, I am getting used to taking responsibiity for someone in a more complete manner than I've ever experienced in a fellow adult. Not only am I having to get used to expecting my orders to be obeyed, I'm having to get used to the strange situation of setting standards and enforcing discipline. Yesterday I had to administer brat's first punishment - When I came to make the family meal (I've always done the cooking - it's a bit of a hobby), I found she'd washed the teatowels and not left one dry for me to use. As it annoyed me, I decided she should get a single stroke with the cane, just as an encouragement.

As I expected, with the prospect of her punishment hanging over her, she spent a couple of hours variously in dread or complaining about the injustice, or dissappointed with herself for forgetting something simple on a day which had, admittedly gone rather well. My original plan was to give her the stroke just before collaring her, but it was threatening to spoil what could be a nice night winding down in front of the TV, I offered her an early punishment. To my surprise, she took the offer and actually took her whack rather well. It wasn't a light stroke - the cane actually broke across her bum, but we could then move on and enjoy the rest of the evening.

Yesterday was an interesting experience as the playscene didn't go too well. We'd agreed to try a bit of pet slavery. brat had previously expressed an interest in being required to feed from a pet bowl, so yesterday I dressed her in the pinkest, girliest, cutest stuff we have, made her a new, belled, cute pink collar and instruced her she wasn't to talk with it on. She made a beautiful sight on her knees, eyes down, with her collar on. I decided to finish her introductory spanking with a few swift ones, but unfortunately it was a little too much for her to take and she lost it for a few seconds. So it was a pissed off slave who got commanded to follow on her lead and eat and drink out of her bowl, still in silence.

She actually performed her requirements in exmemplary form, despite not being able to get properly into her usual headspace. It was quite a revelation to me in that it showed me quite vividy that she really was committed to serving me and her slavery. She really didn't like the scene last night and as she wasn't allowed to talk, wasn't given a safeword and therefore had no way out of it, it wouldn't have surprised me if she just broke the rules, took the punishment and stopped the scene. But she didn't, she took whatever I gave out until I couldn't bear it anymore. The second part of the scene was for her to be tied to the bed to recieve a good caning as she hasn't had one this week yet - and as she mentions in her post below, if she doesn't get a good caning regularly, she gets into a bit of a funk. Unfortunately, as it turns out, a combination of lack of sleep and tension about vanilla world worries stopped her getting into the right mental state and after a few strokes had her sobbing, I gave her a safeword an she stopped the scene.

I figured that would be an end to the day-to-day submission for a few days, but this morning she seems to be none the worse for the experience, looking forward to whatever it is I have planned for her collared session tonight and actually requesting that she recieve the spanking I was going to forego.

She's surprised me a little by passing what turned out to be quite a significant test of her slavery. Turns out she - so far - really does mean it.

I love her so much. She makes me so proud.

I'll share a text message she sent me on the way to her work this morning:

"...I love hearin u call me slave..."

Who can argue with that?

Toys

Here's a rundown of some of the toys we use, along with a pic of our favourites:

Collars:

OK, these aren't toys. The keys for them reside around my neck and until her permanent collar arrives, she is put in one of these each night and performs her slave duties as required.

I've found that it's best to give her a little warm-up spanking to drop her down to that submissive mindset, then I play out a scene with her as my toy. So far (it's only been a few days) I've had her soundly spanked and whipped and made her my pet, complete with cute pink bows, jingly bells and feeding from a bowl (whch she took to incedibly well, despite having recieved a very painful spanking and a punishment lash of the cane beforehand).

I've got plenty of things I want her to do, but I've worn the poor thing out, so she's requested a few easy days where she'll be just collared, spanked and placed at my feet.

Handcuffs:

My favourite black cuffs. My brat looks so delicious curled up on my lap after a good caning, all teary and cuffed.


Bitgag:

I know it's not the most effective gag in the world, but since one of brat's wisdom teeth came through, she's been unable to take a ballgag. As it's not a painful tooth, we would have to have elective surgery to have it removed - and the cost of a private tooth removal just so I can ballgag my slave really isn't realistic.

Nipple Clamps:

With bells attached. I love making her jingle! evil chuckle

Bondage rope:

Pretty standard fare, but something I'm pretty new at. I've had her in some pretty effective ties with this stuff and it's apparently very comfortable.

Rubber flogger:

Purely for effect. Painless - for when she's been good.

Anal beads:

I thought these looked terribly scary in the shop, so of course I had to have them. Although brat doesn't exactly like anal play, she does well at it, taking more than two-thirds of it, eventually.


And finally, as if you thought I'd forgotten...

The Cane:

In actuality, the third cane we've got through. The first one got broken while moving furniture around in the bedroom and the second one snapped last night during a reasonably light punishment caning (Althought I don't think brat would call it light). I wasn't best pleased with that.

I'm slowly working up brat's tolerance to the cane. So far she's managed something like 70 or 80 lashes - with the odd couple of minutes' pause for cuddling, reassurance and sex inbetween.

Introducing the cast

I am Master Fitz.

I have been living with my brat for almost ten years and we have two wonderful children.

Our sex-play has always leant towards the Kinky and we can boast a well-stocked toychest full of rope, chains, paddles, floggers, whips, canes and restraints.

A few weeks ago, I introduced brat to our bamboo cane - and it's fair to say that she fell in love. Now, after a few incredibly successful Dom/sub playscenes and after plenty of investigation and soul searching that I will no doubt document in the flow of this blog, we have decided that the natural progression of how she feels about being dominated and disciplined is for me to have her as my permanently collared slave.

This blog is intended to be a record of our adventures in the lifestyle - and maybe a place to connect with other Masters and spankos.

Coming soon...

* Discussions on our reasons and feelings about the decisions we've reached
* Introducing the collar brat is to wear
* A wishlist of £3000 of equipment we're hoping to invest in
* Details of our play sessions, training sessions and any punishments
* Discussion on how we keep our Master/slave relationship from affecting our children and a secret to the rest of the world.